Thursday, June 19, 2008

The Month of June.

Wow... it has been forever since I last posted anything. Brint and I have had some major life changing experiences this month of June. First, I was able to reunite with my father and his family for really the first time. I say first time because my memories of him are very limited and when I was little i don't really remember him. But I am now beginning a new relationship with him and his family and I can not tell you how happy I am. I now have 3 brothers, Chandler, Cooper, and Jaxson and 3 sisters, Kacie, Madison, and Tess. I am so excited (especially about have brothers now, its so cool!) Curtis and Wendy are two wonderful parents and their children are so
obedient and loving towards one another. It is wonderful to sit back and watch this family interact with one another. I am not used to having so much love in my home (when I lived with my parents). Brint and I are so excited to get to know the McCullough family. It brings me comfort and joy to finally have this "dream" of mine come true... :) Thank you McCullough's for opening your arms to Brint and I and welcoming us into your home. It is truly wonderful.
Second, this month has been emotional. Brint and I had a friend, brother, example, loved one, and a one of a kind kinda guy. Travis Alexander aka "Alexander the Great" was found killed in his home on Monday June 9. Brint got a phone call Monday night from a mutual friend asking him if he has talked to Travis or seen him recently and Brint told him that he hadn't. About 2 hours later Brint gets another phone call from that same friend saying that Travis was found dead in his room. Brint and I left our home immediately to go over to Travis's house to see what was going on. The police were there and the home was caution taped off. More friends of Travis's showed up at his home. We ended up staying there until 2:30 in the morning. Brint was asked to go down to the Police Station to give a statement and we ended up not getting home until 5 in the morning. That was a hard, very emotional, and long night. Tuesday even got harder. Brint had to make many phone calls to mutual friends of Travis's. I can not believe how strong my husband is. He was able to get through talking to people and telling the story over and over again. I really don't think I could or even would want to continually re-live the situation each time to someone new and have to listen to the shared tears shed on Travis's behalf.

It was a long week. Brint and I were able to comfort one another and be strong when the other is feeling weak. The detectives allowed the family to go into the home on Friday and we went over to help move Travis's personal items and help Travis's sisters get the things taken care of that needed to get done. There was a memorial here in Mesa, AZ for Travis on Monday June 16. What a beautiful service. I can not express to you how strong the spirit was there and how many people showed up to show there love for this man. We are heading to California on Friday the 20th to attend the funeral in Riverside, California on Saturday. Brint and I will be singing a song at the funeral called "Prepare to meet the Lord" from Afterglow. If you have not heard this song, it is Travis's favorite song and it is beautiful. Brint and Travis were going to sing it in church one Sunday and they didn't get that chance. This song is very special to Brint because it was Travis's favorite song and he wanted Brint to sing it with him.
Travis was a truly remarkable person. He was most defiantly a unique person. He loved everyone and lived his life in acts of service. If anyone needed any kind of help Travis was always there lending a helpful hand. He loved life. He loved the Gospel. He was constantly sharing his testimony of the Gospel to whoever would listen. We will miss him so much. We love you Travis.
Thank you to all of you who have loved and supported us through this hard time. We are so blessed to have people around us like you all.

Love,

Brint and Brea

9 comments:

The Flynn's said...

Hi Brea, this is Emily's sister Katie. I just hoppped over to your blog from Emily's and read your post. I just wanted to tell you I am really sorry about your loss. That's very tragic and sad. Death is always SO hard. Good luck at the funeral with the song you'll be singing. I'm sure you'll do wonderful!

Wendy said...

WE wouldn't have it any other way Brea!! We love you guys, and are sooo glad you are a part of our lives and our family! WE are the blessed ones!

Madison Shea... said...

Brea,
I am so glad we finally got to meet you and we got to become awesome friends!! I hope as we get to know each other our relationship will grow more and more! We are so so Blessed to have you AND Brint in our family!

Anyway I know you will do GREAT at the funeral! Dont be nervous, Travis will be there loving you no matter if you mess up!!! Haha! Anyway We love you and Brint so much, we couldn't have asked for a better sister and Brother-in-law!

Love ya!
Madison shea

Wendy said...

PS~I have NO DOUBTS about you and Brint's singing ability!!!! You guys will do an AWESOME job! Don't worry! Just hold on tight to each other and you guys can get through anything together! Have a safe trip, and let us know how it went!!

Love all of us!

Stephens Family said...

Brea,

We are thinking of you and praying for you, Brint and Travis' family. I know the spirit will guide you. Through these hard times, lean on each other and you and Brint can get through anything. We love you!

Jenni Sue said...

Brea! We're so sorry you guys have had a hard last couple of weeks. Please let us know if there's anything you need! We need to get together again soon. Miss you!

Kacie said...

Brea~Just wondering how your weekend went, I hope all went well. I'll see you in a couple of weeks!

Hiatt Family said...

I'm so sorry you guys. I heard what happened & knew that it had to be so hard for your family & friends. Lincoln & I remember meeting Travis a few times.We've heard so many great things about him. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts & prayers. We love you guys!

Hillary said...

Thanks for all your kind words about Travis. I know he loved you guys so much.

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